"I'm not completely reconciled with my body. I still ask myself 1000 questions about sexy. But I feel more beautiful in summer! And yet it wasn't a given!
In “Old Skin”, her brilliant latest book, Fiona Schmidt writes that we are theoretically much older than our age, since we are the sum of all our ages! True that: inside the 43-year-old woman that I am at the moment and who is about to put on Brenda shorts, there is also:
- the 31 year old weighed down by her 20kg of pregnancy who walks in the hot air of July 2011,
- the slim, tanned and muscular 18-year-old girl who feels beautiful for the first time after 3 weeks of GR hiking in Corsica in July 1997
-and well buried below, the 12 year old teenager freshly out of camp where the grown-ups were already shaving their legs, who cast a new perplexed, self-conscious and disappointed look on the hairs of her calves (sweet & bitter memories from July 1992).
A video about the Summer Body on Period Studio - a new media which seems to me to be of public utility - turned me upside down this week. Gaëlle Prudencio gently invites all those whose bodies do not seem normal to shed the gaze of others, often even heavier than the extra pounds. Where her message is genius is that she suggests stopping judging others, seeing a body just as a body, not as a body that is “too much or not enough”. We must free ourselves from the gaze of others, but also change our outlook. If our looks change, imagine how sublime our bodies will be this summer!
Attention: this is the moment where I pull the thread a little, I enlarge the line a little since it is the theme: what depilatory cream, detox capsule, cosmetic surgery or shaping cyclist could beat a collective softening of the eyes? Whether aesthetically, economically, socially or even ecologically, it is by far the best solution!
My bibliography of the sources cited in this paper is here:
- Be careful, to put in everyone's hands. You will stabilize everything, laugh a lot and perhaps also make peace with your age and that of others: Old Skin, Fionna Schmidt👉 Old Skin, Fiona Schmidt
- The Period Studio media, and particularly the video by Gaëlle Prudencio 👉 See on Period Studio
- Already a classic, Beauté Fatale, by Mona Chollet, you will devour it (as well as almost everything published by La Découverte) 👉 Beauté Fatale
- And if you want to follow me while waiting for my newsletter one day 👉 CharlotteTexas